Who said life was supposed to be easy?
say along the lines of – probably find it difficult because sometimes do and sometimes don’t – it depends on the activity – so now, what distinguishes activities where have grit from those where don’t.
Are there some activities where currently don’t have grit but be in your interests if you did – if yes, what can you do. Change beliefs, create passion, create success (Dilbert) – get over the first hill – me and cycling – first hill is the hardest – show on strava the map etc.